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Feels wierd

My sister just came in and told me that she's gonna get married and go to UAE by Eid Alfitr, God willing... now my initial reaction was that of , I don't knwo maybe shock... though she's been planning with her fiancefor ages, all that remained is to determain a date to carry out with the formal procedures, you know all that Jaha and engagement party kind of stuff...
 
The thing is, I just can't imagine her going away, leaving to be in another family... now it's not like we are those utopian sister, we don't have that intimate relationship sisters tend to have, we are different in almost every aspect, we hardly talk personal stuff... but I still can't wrap my mind around the idea... you know the idea! It's just that I still don't get the facts, that we have grown, we are no longer those little kids chasing around our neighours "kharoof el3eed" LOL sheep seemed like aliens to us :D anyways... see the point is, I graduated & started a job, my brother got into college and my sister is about to get married all in one year! And I still don't get it! I still feel like a college student myself, but I can't feel it away you know... However, this doesn't mean in anyway that I'm dissatisfied or something, conversely, I'm grateful for all of this... I'm happy, it's just that when things change, it might take sometime to register...
 
 


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thecaller from Egypt
September, 28, 2006 11:38 AM
Asalam 3alaykom,
we all need time to addapt to changes dear..especially when a lot is happening at the same time..
As they say..dawam al7al men elmo7al!!
may allah grant you and sis happiness and blessings:)
Abed. Hamdan from Jordan
September, 30, 2006 2:33 AM
I still feel like 15 yrs old..I don't when I finished my high school and joined uni and about to finish it!

who cares, let the world crash ;)
Karin from Germany
September, 30, 2006 3:04 AM
Don't you worry at all .. it happens to me as well sometimes that it takes a while till the coin in my head drops! On my birthday .. do you think I could figure out how come I just had turned 54? Not a chance ... I still feel like 35 or 40 ... no idea how I got to 54.
So just take it easy .. it takes a while to adopt to changes - but there's nothing to worry about!
BIG hug floating to you right now!!
Dar
October, 01, 2006 12:33 AM
Ya Ola , Hada &al el denia ....

CheeerZ!
diinnaa
October, 01, 2006 4:48 PM
i know exactly what ur talking about, i graduated a year ago & now working & still can't imagine & my parents are bringing me (3ersan) now (bedhom ye5laso sheklo) & i'm like what the hell r u talking about mom & dad, u know it's just crazy
Summer
October, 01, 2006 5:02 PM
With any change comes new challenges. one should accept it and do the best s/he can to get over it. it takes sometime to get used to anything new but once we feel comfortable in this new environment, things change again!! It is just how life it...this what makes life interesting and fun to live. I think life would be boring if things stayed the same all the time.
good luck to your sister and to you all in adapting to the new change you are about to face.
Nana
October, 01, 2006 10:00 PM
c'est la vie Ola.
time passes so quickly that we can barely believe that we've been living that long and that we're getting old.
Ola
October, 03, 2006 2:49 AM
Thank you all for your comments, you all make sense :) I know that things must and do change, it just takes sometime for the mechanism to register