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Graduation, is it worth it?

And we're done with university, at last!
 
Before I say what I am about to say, and in order for my point to be clear I should own that I have gained much from my universoty and it taught me many things, not to mention that I met great people there...
 
Well, yesterday was my graduation day, it was fun being with all these friends and classmates. We lined up for enterance and, with the university song playing and replaying, we headed to our seats.
 
Now, looking at all these graduates with the whole atmosphere was a very impressive scene for many people, but ot for me. I really wasn't deeply touched or extaraordinarly impressed by the wqhole thing. On the contrary, the song got on my nerves, it's very touchy, and I didn't feel like we've saved some planet...
 
I viewed the image of the graduates pouring in and, the idea that hit me was: What's all the fuss about? I know some people who are graduating but they don't seem to have gained the minimum knowledge requiered! I found it sad, our universoty is the most reputable university in Jordan... The averag level of the students should be much higher! All those people cheering for the graduates and celebrating outside, it should be a pleasant and impressive scene, but thinking of the high expectations these people might have from their children and the other graduates makes me see the dark side of it...
 
I don't want to seem like a dark horse, so let me admit that the graduate day was fun because:
 
1- It's an official announcement that you have finished college, your passport to life.
 
2- You make your parents proud, and it feels good.
 
3- You take nice photoes with your friends. 
 
Let's stick to this side for now... 
 
 


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Qwaider قويدر from United States
June, 23, 2006 7:38 PM
Yis3ed rab el Nakad ana bas .... walaek bit3ezzi el nakad zay 3yoonek inti
Sho Ola ... Mabrook El shahadeh el kbeereh ... Now your Kitchen view is complete. You hang the Degree and marvel at it when you're chopping onions ;-)

Ya Ola ya habeebti ... you should be ecstatic ... Excited ... and flying of joy that your efforts over the past 16 years or so have finally been documented. It's your biggest achievement in life. YOU my dear are "EDUCATED". What you chose to do with your education is up to you ... But NO ONE ... can take THIS from you. You Made it dear ... YOU MADE IT .... SCREAM IT!! SHOUT IT ... YOU MADE IT ... you're done ... you're through .... it's your WINDOW on your future.
Now you can even tell you're parents, I'm not a little girl, I've finished university and I can make my decisions. Now you can proudly walk in a place and DEMAND people to address you as "Ostazeh" "Mohandeseh" ...etc depending on your field (you didn't mention it)

Walek ... It should be the HAPPIEST time in your whole life. And you know what? Maybe many people have contributed to your success, your parents, friends, professors ...etc .. but YOU ... and YOU ALONE... DID IT..... WOOOOOO HOOOOOOO MABROOOOOOK
Shaden from United Arab Emirates
June, 24, 2006 8:20 AM
loooool

I didn't go to mine, it's pointless especially when one year already passed on your actual graduation.

P.S at my friend's engagement party I tried to look thrilled and excited but I couldn't even though I was really so happy for her. I only managed to scream like a mad woman every now and then. Never done such a thing in my whole life before, as a result, my voice nearly disappeared 2 hours later.
Ola from Jordan
June, 24, 2006 2:20 PM
Qwaider: That was good! Thanks, you really raised my spirits up :)

Shaden: looooool glad you had fun! I was wondering how it had gone :D
Khaled from Jordan
June, 25, 2006 7:39 PM
Hey Ola! Cheer up! I know the feeling you're talking about since I felt it before! I was in my graduation like "Sho mal ahelhom hadol, 3ala esh mkayfeen!"
It's a matter of a few days and every thing will be fine... and if you're afraid of being away from the atmo of the university of your friends, believe you'll live it till you decide it's enough, and your true friends will stay yours! Cheeeer up!
Ola from Jordan
June, 26, 2006 2:02 PM
No no Khaled I'm not upset bcoz I finished uni, I couldn't wait till I was done with it :D
theone from Jordan
June, 30, 2006 11:44 AM
alf mabrook

ana t5arjt el a7ad

and i didnt wanna go , bs eqtan3t eno go sho 5asran :p

well am glad that i went l2no 2oltek a7la she el tasweer ma3 el nas ele ma ra7 tshofeham

and to tell u the truth the best part was when i took my shehadeh and went back 2 my seat , i opened it and read my name there, at the moment i really smiled and i was very happy.i was thinking about my 5 years 2001-2006 what a long time :D

but finally we did it

mabrook again
Ola from Jordan
July, 01, 2006 12:21 PM
Allah ybarek feek, mabrook to you too! Yeah really it gives you embovelent feelings to think about the 5 years (4 in my case :p) jad times runs so fast!
Osaid from Jordan
July, 02, 2006 8:29 AM
and finally you did it ! Mabrook !