On April, 18, 2006 9:57 AM , eyad
from Jordan said:

Love itself is uncivil

On April, 18, 2006 9:03 PM , Iman
from United States said:

eyad, why?
Ola, I don't know about that. I don't think so!

On April, 18, 2006 10:43 PM , Ola
from Jordan said:

Eyad: I don't think that love is uncivil... we can't blame love itself for our miseries... If you suffer it's not because you love someone, but because this someone does NOT love you back! for instance...

Iman: Think it over... some people became somehow indifferent to other people when they are really in love!

em..i thought love encourages civility...you know how people in love (mind you of the many types of love) can come up with the most beautiful poems.
take sonnet 18 by shakespeare for example..:faint:

On April, 19, 2006 12:46 PM , Ola
from Jordan said:

Civility toward whom? Toward the person in question, but not necessarily other people...

On April, 19, 2006 12:55 PM , eyad
from Jordan said:

hi Iman

well,to tell you the truth I am one of the people who used to think and dream of love all day long ....at one point in my life I thought I found it....then discovered that the society you are living in imposes some pressure in the relationship between two people.

Either that by parents ...or by customs or even by the mentality of one of them which in return predesigned by the pressure of the society.

you may think this is too pissimistic...but sometimes the truth is sad